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Monday, August 27, 2012

Fast and Furious Addiction Crisis

We are in the soup again. Younger daughter to Beth shopping today for a pant suit. She actually behaved pretty well but was all bruised up. Younger daughter assumed it was from the boyfriend. Eventhough Beth told me she and the boyfriend broke up, that is where she wanted to be dropped off.

I asked Beth about the bruises and she claims to have been hit by a car while riding her bike. WOW  Hit by a car....... covered in a terrible rash.........looks like she was beaten  up.

Oh, and did I mention that she also got her younger sister to return the reciepts to her because the shoes she bought were too high? Looks like she scammed me out of money by faking a shopping trip.

I rescheduled my husband's spine Dr. for tommorow so that I can go with Beth to the dermitologist. I am pulled between all these needy people and do not take care of myself well enough either.

I am worried about her. She is apparently at one of her lower points now...... constantly scamming, in very poor health, beat up and spiraling on down.

God grant me the serenity to find the eye of this hurricane. Thank you God for keeping her alive so far. Please, please let her live to see another day. Please show her the way now as I fear there is not much more time.

I just texted her the following:  I feel that you are very near death my love. I pray that you have a moments clarity. Remember Straight and Narrow?( a long term rehab).

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  1. I am giving you a huge huge hug .

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  2. I just texted my son something similar but mine had a lot of swear words in it. Hugs to us both.

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  3. I am praying for you daughter and family tonight. Wish there was something more I could do to support all of you. Take care.

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  4. oh Anna, I feel your pain! I wish there was something I could do for you and Beth! It's gut wrentching feeling. This is when you have to rely on yourself and know you have done all you possibly can and then some. Please be good to yourself! Hugs, Kelly

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    1. I do try to be good to myself but it is hard to feel deserving.

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  5. Oh Anna, I am so sorry. I texted something similar yesterday....a bit more desperate, but the same plea.....get help! All we can do is pray mama....and I am praying for your girl. I know you pray for mine too. Lets keep at it. Where there is breath there is hope...I really do believe that.

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    1. I know you understand. Yes, I do pray for you and your girl.

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  6. It's so painful to watch them self-destruct. I hope God has another plan for her life.

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  7. I am sorry, Anna. I hope that you will have that place of calm in the midst of the turmoil.

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